March 2019, Shish Mediterranean Restaurant, St. Paul, MN. My spouse and I were living there and Adela and Todd had just recently moved to Rochester, about an hour and half drive away. She came up to hang out for lunch and chatter at our favorite spot in St. Paul. We hung out a few times out there, two working class Chicanos moving to the Midwest following out partners. I thinks she found some comfort hanging out in our neck of the woods but that is a longer story to tell. Peace, homie.